Many women are far to soft on their men when trying chastity. It actually takes quite a lot to really cause him issues, yet many women let their men orgasm or come back out of chastity far to often and far too easily.
Yes, it might get a bit uncomfortable from time to time, yes, it might be frustrating for him going weeks/months without orgasm. However, as long as hygiene is maintained, it shouldn’t cause him any real trouble.
Chastity in a loving relationship should involve discussion and understanding, but if you keep being soft on him the lifestyle doesn’t really work to its best. He needs, and desires, that feeling of helpless abandonment that comes with being locked-up and knowing that you are truly in command and not going to be letting him out or orgasm at every little guilt trip h tries on you.
Ladies, be strong and make him sweat and ‘suffer’; he’ll appreciate you all the more for doing so.
The best I’ve seen on this subject. Comfort is VERY important. Get him the CB6000 at first and some Eros oil to run on the ring so it doesn’t irritate his skin to the point where he can’t sleep. SLEEP is critical or he can’t get to work. Great, great article on chastity.